About Us

Elegant Affairs is a Christian DJ company based in Mankato, MN, with one goal: to get your guests to say, "That was the most fun I have ever had at a wedding reception!"

Matt and Carol are a husband-and-wife-for-life team, guiding each couple through the planning process. We believe weddings are the first of many celebrations in a marriage. 

We believe that our excitement for fun and memorable weddings can be clearly seen as you explore our website.

Matt, Carol, and Grace are a happy family that work and play together. They are active at their church, love to travel, spend time each day learning something new, enjoy lake time in the summer, and try to fill each day with a whole lot of Jesus and a little bit of magic.

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Matt and Carol met at a party. Matt was the dj, Carol was on the planning committee.

The first day they met, Matt knew he was going to marry Carol.  On their first date, Carol knew if she dated “this guy”, he would become her husband. But it took a couple years until they were willing to admit it to each other.



They married in 2011 and had a beautiful wedding and a “Mega Party”. Throughout the planning process for their own wedding, they realized how lost most couples must be when trying to figure out all these details.  So they decided to make weddings easier for every couple they’d get to serve by sharing all their experience, resources, and expertise anytime they could.  That’s the Elegant Affairs' process.



In 2014 they were blessed by God with the sweetest little girl. Her name is Grace.  She works alongside dad and mom daily in the business. She has her own spot in the office, and will eagerly wait for papers to shoot out of the copy machine. She loves to color, sing, and take dance- party breaks in the garage. If she is around during a meeting, she’d love to push the button on the remote to turn on the dance lights for you.